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Should I file for divorce?

My wife(25F) left me(30M) a little over a month ago. We had only been married for 6 months before one moment she was by my side, to the next where we had the “talk” and she wanted a divorce. There was nothing I could say or do to win her back, she was already 110% …

Divorcing and depression

Can depression be causing this divorce?

Hi. My wife (39) and I (45) have been married for 8 years with two kids (6 and 4). The second child really through my wife for a loop. She had postpartum depression and had a very stressful time at work. She saw a counselor from work for ‘coping strategies’ (I went with her a …

COVID 19 Update

COVID 19 Divorce Update

So much has changed in the last few months and at the same time nothing has changed. During this quarentine time we are spending more time with those we live with…for better or worse. There has been a big spike of people contacting for our divorce assistance and I wanted to update you all on …

valentines day for singles

What I am NOT getting this Valentine’s day

This Valentine’s day I am NOT getting ignored. I am not getting belittled I am not getting unappreciated I am not getting disappointed I am not getting the feeling that I am unworthy I am not getting sad that he doesn’t love me This Valentine’s day I AM getting my self worth, I am getting …

Marriage is Over but she does not know it

For the last 1.5 years, I’ve been done with her. Our marriage has been nothing but rough patches, and as a young man from a rough family, I didn’t realize that this wasn’t normal.  Her and I married at 20 and 19 respectively, and ever since we’ve thought about marriage together, it’s been a bad …

I Can’t Stop Crying

This has been a tearful 24 hours. She has made it apparent she is ready to file. I am not going say I am blameless, I did some stupid things along the way (e.g. sign up for a sugar daddy site, which she found out about, but I have been always faithful to my wife.) …

wtf happened to the man I used to be

Sitting in a parking lot wondering wtf happened to the man I used to be

I’ve been 99.9% sure my wife has been doing something behind my back for the entirety of our marriage. Things like the same phone number under different contact names in her phone to an unexplained hotel visit on her banking statement to a birthday card that I confirmed with the company was printed in our …

Never Loved Me?

My wife was the sweetest person I ever met. Never drank alcohol, never cussed just a sweet innocent girl. She came from a childhood of abandonment and extreme sexual abuse. About 2 years ago she switched jobs and began hanging out with some single and recently divorced women she works with. At the same time …

I miss Us But I Don’t Miss You

To my wife, I miss us but I dont miss you. You wanted a divorce three months ago, left the house 1 month ago. As time goes by I’ll see that it was the right decision but I miss us. I dont miss your BPD tendencies that drove a wedge between us. I’m proud of …

VA Divorce

Well my holiday didnt go as planned, instead of gifts this year it was divorce papers on the 28th. I am an army combat veteran and have been in bad situations but this was heart stopping and I felt like being stabbed in the back. Our relationship (10 yrs together 7 married) had seemed pretty …