My wife (married for seven years, separated for six months give or take) has been staying in our spare bedroom for months as she prepares to buy a new house and move on from our life together.
She’s expecting to be gone in the next two months.
She promised me I didn’t need to worry about her dating as she wasn’t interested in that any time soon and just wanted to work on herself. I didn’t ask this of her, she volunteered it, though it was comforting to hear.
Now the last two nights I’ve heard her having loud speakerphone conversations with a deep voiced, unknown male… So I’m trying to tell myself we’re over and it’s ok for her to move on with her life.
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I’ve basically been in purgatory with her still living here and I’ve been kind of waiting for her to leave and begin taking our 4 year old half the week to start working on my self and trying to heal.
To have her already going back on her word is pretty hurtful.
I’m tempted to confront her about breaking her promise or at least ask her to be more discreet but I feel like the right thing to do is just ignore it as I guess it’s none of my business.
So yeah, fuck all of this, it’s terrible.
Update: I told her I heard her speaking to another man and that it’s none of my business but she needed to be more considerate. She just said ok, didn’t bother to try to explain it away so….
Well, that confirms it’s definitely a new dude.
I pretty much already knew but confirmation of bad news is never good news.