posted by Anonymous
How do you survive divorce?
December 4, I found out my husband was having an affair, everything, sexting this woman, sleeping with her, everything.
I was 38 weeks pregnant with our third child at the time. I went into labor that night. My beautiful baby was born in the evening December 6.
Since that time I’ve been working on our marriage, trying to meet his concerns.
He said he wasn’t in contact with the woman anymore. Well I’ve found out he continued to call and text her after 12/4, until I finally blocker her number through Verizon on 12/15.
My husband says he was trying to tell her their relationship was over. He was on the phone for 71 minutes with her while I was in the hospital with our son. He called her an hour after Elijah was born.
He called and texted her multiple time per day everyday. I didn’t believe his excuse but he had done things I asked him to do (deleting snapchat, blocking her on social media, going to get tested for STDs etc)
For obvious reasons, I didn’t trust him. So I put a hum (from Verizon) on his car. This way I could see where he was driving.
This morning he stopped at her house. He only stayed a minute then left. Called me after he left and lied to me about where he was. I could see GPS real time his location and be lied.
I haven’t confronted him about stopping at her house yet. I’m trying to wait till go to couples counseling tomorrow.
But I’m 90% sure this is going to end in a divorce. And I don’t know how I’m going to survive.
I have a 4 yr old, 2 yr old and a 7 week old baby. I’m a stay at home mom with little support form family. Basically just my mother in law and step mom to help with the kids.
I don’t know how to get through this ?