So as it turns out, you can do all the cooking, all the cleaning, do all the errands, take care of the kids, let him sleep in every weekend, work a full time career making decent money, support his hopes, goals and dreams wholeheartedly, be his unpaid therapist, make all of his doctor’s appointments, pay all the bills on time, do all the laundry… and your spouse will still ask you for a divorce because you’re “too b*tchy and miserable.”
This came after I wrote him a letter asking him for help and expressing some grievances about his behavior, that I heavily sugar coated so he wouldn’t feel completely attacked.
I’m emotionally fragile and going through all the stages of grief it seems. I didn’t want a divorce, I just wanted him to be a team player.
Idk how I’m just so disposable.
He doesn’t even seem upset, meanwhile I’ve been crying on and off the last 24 hours.
It’s hard being with someone who takes advantage of you then finds it so easy to walk away.
Sometimes it takes things like this for them to see all the effort you’ve made.
You’ll go through the stages allow yourself to twice grieve but don’t you dare discount your worth.
Once this divorce is more settled and finalized, and you’re on you’re own and he’s on his own – it is really going to dawn on him just how much you do for him, and what all he is missing. He might even try to win you, the “bitchy and miserable” gal back.
Just say no.
You’re far better than anything he really deserves at this point. You absolutely deserve a team player if you choose to be with someone. You deserve to have someone value you for all that you do. He never did. His loss 🙂
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